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Discover the most common types of flirting signals women use and how
to spot even the most subtle flirting.
Some experts say 90% of communication is nonverbal. We send nonverbal
messages to communicate; some nonverbal messages are simple to interpret
their meaning; for instance if someone is smiling at you they are
pleased with something you have done. Interpreting the meaning of
different types of nonverbal flirting signals becomes a little more
difficult. In the next few minutes you will learn how to spot the six
most common types of flirting signals.
1.) Eye contact is the most popular way to flirt with someone in a
crowded place or if the person is across the room. If you hold eye
contact with a woman for 2 seconds or longer and she keeps looking at
you then she is definitely interested and it's time to take the next
step and approach her.
2.) She caresses or plays with her hair. Women put a lot of effort
into ensuring their hair looks its best; for this reason their hair is a
source of confidence. If she is drawing attention to it she is
attempting to act in a seductive manner towards you.
3.) She places emphasis on her legs and feet: Women flirt a couple of
different ways with their legs and feet. For instance if she points her
feet toward you, she is probably interested in you. Another more
subconscious way of flirting is if she crosses and uncrosses her legs
while you're watching. This means she is unsure how to act when you're
watching her and she is nervous, meaning she is interested in you.
4.) She licks her lips: women know men find this sexy and if she
licks her lips while you're watching she is definitely flirting. Also
when we get nervous our mouths get dry and we need to lick our lips.
5.) She exposes her neck, stomach, and other intimate parts of her
body. If you see her drawing attention to intimate parts of her body in
your direction you have an open invitation to approach her. This is the
most common type of flirting.
6.) She smiles at you. Another open invitation to approach her. The
best reaction to this gesture is to smile back.
Question: Why do men flirt with married women?
(Posted by: ME on 2006-04-02 20:18:08)
Why do men continue to flirt with me after I've already made it abundantly clear that I am married? I don't flirt back and I wear a wedding ring so it's not like I'm inviting the attention. My husband gets jealous when we go out and men approach me; as if I have any control over their actions...
Answers:
Posted by: nikki_mh02 on 2006-04-02, 20:20:39
There's something about attached men and women that is just so hot and it feels so wrong...when you feel like you're taking a risk, life seems so interesting and fun...
Posted by: Centurion on 2006-04-02, 20:21:08
You must be a very beautiful woman. That would be my guess....
Posted by: abercrombielover300 on 2006-04-02, 20:21:30
I guess they think it is cool?? y r u married?? are guyz flirting with u?
Posted by: vettedream72 on 2006-04-02, 20:22:07
Both men and women want what they can't have. Plus they feel safer knowing you are going to say "no ".
Posted by: infobs on 2006-04-02, 20:22:16
And why do women let them do it ?
Posted by: Romeo on 2006-04-02, 20:22:47
Because they are stupid! Poor Pushkin was killed because of stupid situations like that. . . .
Posted by: eegle70 on 2006-04-02, 20:23:04
They must be stupid. I dont flirt with any lady that is married. If I see a ring I leave them alone.
Posted by: budgirl on 2006-04-02, 20:23:31
Because they know there are no strings attached.
Posted by: speed_goddess18 on 2006-04-02, 20:23:59
It's the thrill of trying to obtain the unabtainable. Some people just really get off on that. It's similar to people who want to have threesomes or engage in kinky sex acts. It's challenging a taboo and it gives that person a rush.
Posted by: xtcgurl123 on 2006-04-02, 20:24:05
For some people it's exciting to try and get what they can't have....it's a challenge. Obviously, if your hubby is jealous then he has no confidence. If he was confident in his relationship with you then he would be happy to have a woman that other men thought was beautiful enough to flirt with.
Posted by: pinkstealth on 2006-04-02, 20:24:12
It's the whole psychological process. The power to take someone away from the one they are with... Competitive, I am the winner, I am better than him/ her. Love your husband... do not fall into that trap. This person shows a whole lack of character by even attempting this.
Posted by: sdfem23 on 2006-04-02, 20:24:19
It's all about pursuing the unattainable. The taboo is what does it for most men. As for your husband, he needs to chill out. If you're not returning the flirtations, then his jealousy is unfounded and not acceptable. Some men would be flattered that men were attracted to their wives, kind of like having a prize that everybody else wants, but can't have. You need to talk to your husband and make him understand that you are not purposely encouraging this behavior in other men and there isn't anything you can do about it except to explain that you are married and not interested. I would hope that your husband would see some reason in this.
Posted by: niteskylover81 on 2006-04-02, 20:28:29
Cause men always want what they cant have, its a challenge to them, more then any thing. A game to help boost they echos, if it really bugs you that much, just stomp on there pride ie....tell him you dont talk to short guys if he's short, or tell him you heard from his ex that he was lacking in the low regent(if you know what I mean), anything that will bruise his balls a little, Im sure he wont bug you again!!!!!!
Posted by: farvfrumpuken on 2006-04-02, 20:28:56
Maybe you should stop making eye contact and try not looking at them. Try ignoring them if you're not doing anything inviting. Usually most people will walk away if ignored....
Posted by: Nightwriter21 on 2006-04-02, 20:30:11
Now you've got me. I would have said that it's married women who flirt first, and it's enjoyable for a man to flirt with any woman, married or not. But, in your case, maybe you are projecting just enough flirtatiousness unconsciously because you want attention, and even want your husband to get jealous. I'm not saying you are, only it could be that you are even unawares. Look into yourself. But a little flirtation isn't harmful if you could get your husband to accept it as normal and you never carried it too far. Spouses need to understand the ego-boosting power of flirting for both of you.
Posted by: adrianlex2006 on 2006-04-03, 11:55:49
No strings attached and its more challenging almost like adrenaline
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