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Discover the most common types of flirting signals women use and how to spot even the most subtle flirting.

Some experts say 90% of communication is nonverbal. We send nonverbal messages to communicate; some nonverbal messages are simple to interpret their meaning; for instance if someone is smiling at you they are pleased with something you have done. Interpreting the meaning of different types of nonverbal flirting signals becomes a little more difficult. In the next few minutes you will learn how to spot the six most common types of flirting signals.

1.) Eye contact is the most popular way to flirt with someone in a crowded place or if the person is across the room. If you hold eye contact with a woman for 2 seconds or longer and she keeps looking at you then she is definitely interested and it's time to take the next step and approach her.

2.) She caresses or plays with her hair. Women put a lot of effort into ensuring their hair looks its best; for this reason their hair is a source of confidence. If she is drawing attention to it she is attempting to act in a seductive manner towards you.

3.) She places emphasis on her legs and feet: Women flirt a couple of different ways with their legs and feet. For instance if she points her feet toward you, she is probably interested in you. Another more subconscious way of flirting is if she crosses and uncrosses her legs while you're watching. This means she is unsure how to act when you're watching her and she is nervous, meaning she is interested in you.

4.) She licks her lips: women know men find this sexy and if she licks her lips while you're watching she is definitely flirting. Also when we get nervous our mouths get dry and we need to lick our lips.

5.) She exposes her neck, stomach, and other intimate parts of her body. If you see her drawing attention to intimate parts of her body in your direction you have an open invitation to approach her. This is the most common type of flirting.

6.) She smiles at you. Another open invitation to approach her. The best reaction to this gesture is to smile back.

Question: Guys, what kind of flirting do you like best, or how would you like to be flirted with to really impress you?

(Posted by: Blondie Sweet on 2010-03-09 18:31:22)

There's all sorts of advice from girls and women about how to flirt and what to do, but I'm curious; Guys, what sort of flirting do you or WOULD you appreciate most from a girl? What does a girl do to let you know she's interested without coming off as easy or skanky? Is there anything you would WANT a girl to do to flirt with you? Be serious here. Don't tell me "have sex with me " or anything along those lines. I'm trying to impress a guy I met in my college class. He's in the military, quiet, and really sweet. I've heard that if a guy likes you, he WILL ask you out. But he hasn't asked me out or anything...I mean, it's not like we know each other that well. We see each other about twice a week, and only in that class. And we walked across the campus to our next destination together. I would like to know what to do that would make him WANT to spend time with me and be around me. Thanks! Also. He has my phone number, but doesn't text me. I don't want to text him and be annoying. Plus, I want him to feel like he's doing the pursuing. :) I know he's really busy and barely pays attention to his phone on the weekends, but guys, if you were even remotely interested in a girl, would you text her no matter what? I know this is a lot of questions, but any insight would be appreciated. Thanks!

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